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 No.1670[View All]

its the fist time ive made a friend who's a girl (female) in my 19 years of age, turns out it wasnt that hard. Im still afraid of women though

am i winning?
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 No.6663

>>6661
*hints
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 No.6666

>>6661
Bruh, she's playing you like an XBox. Just sleep with a prostitute for now and them book a flight overseas to find a relationship.
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 No.6667

>>6666
I'd advise against seeing a prostitute. Not a good habit to get into.
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 No.6669

>>6661
yes uyghur it probably is too late should have listened to me >>5548
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 No.6670

>>6669
She lowkey flirts IRL but then takes ages to reply to texts. Other times she ignores IRL but be talkative over text. It's so bizarre
>>6666
>Bruh, she's playing you like an XBox
Either that or she's socially stunted and retard can't make up her mind
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 No.6671

Bros I feel i'm starting to hate her and i really don't want it to end lik this. Gonna do one last charge and i'll update in a few weeks
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 No.6672

>>6670
>Either that or she's socially stunted and retard can't make up her mind
OMG, just move on already.
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 No.6676

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>>6670
You're the one who's stunted and apparently unaware of any modicum of dating culture. You'd know that it's your duty to initiate a relationship so don't come crying like a pathetic faggot when it sounds like she did her part to show interest and you fumbled like a faggot. You deserve this.
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 No.6680

This thread reminds me of a quote from Charles Darwin: "the definition of insanity is doing the exact same fucking thing over and over again expecting shit to change"
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 No.6684

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>>6680
uygha got laid once. this time she didn't just fall into his lap is the difference. he did the same thing by not doing anything but the conditions changed around him and he was unwilling to adapt. She made the fucking pass but he was too stupid to move a few steps to catch it thinking: "It fell right into my hands last time so why not this time?!" tl;dr op is a coward faggot with no initiative
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 No.6690

>>6680
I thought einstein said that.
But theres also the inverse:
Doing different random shit and expecting the same result.
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 No.6761

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Well so this is the last week of class. I've already decided I'm gonna confess to her one of these days, fuck it, ain't got nothing to lose anymore.
It hurts inside bros… it hurts inside.
>>6676
>>6684
Nah mate you're dyslexic. Read again and see that I've already tried most of what I could and still it seems she'll give mixed signals till god knows when. I'm probably gonna blow my chances away 99% with this plan but at least my mind will be at peace.

Man why do I fall so hard for these unstable type women
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 No.6771

>>6761
"uh so… do you want to go study" isn't an explicit date you retarded faggot fuck off
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 No.6778

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Well. That was it. There's no coming back from here.

I just confessed via voice message. It took me half an hour to spit out a 20 seconds message but hey. I've put my phone on airplane mode until tomorrow so i don't deal with notification anxiety.
Today was the last day of class. There's little chance i'd see her again until september and that is if we even got in the same class which there was little chance of because of reasons. And anyway after the summer any sort of feelings that might be there would dissipate and I can't afford to let her keep living rent free in my mind.

So I figured there was little if nothing to lose. That was my last shot, friendly fire if you will
I hope anons respect my decision. Let me kill her before she kills me.

There's no coming fucking back. I feel void but at the same time kind of relieved
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 No.6779

>>6778
Tell us what her response is anon. I am too invested in this love story.
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 No.6780

>>6778
pathetic you've set yourself up for failure and for what? to vindicate your own misguided self hatred and to continue your own self sabotage?
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 No.6783

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Said she just wanna be classmates
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 No.6784

>>6783
>leave the site for awhile
>come back to this
no… this isn't how this was supposed to go
you were supposed to win and it'd mean there's hope for me too
noooo!!!!!!!!
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 No.6785

>>6783
I wouldn't even be mad at least you got to get pissed on.
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 No.6830

>>5508
>true autists should be put in collective farms
State farms. Our production is not so underdeveloped anymore to rely on enforced collective private property relations.

>>5510
Stupid ass uyghur. Things are done PRESENTLY, not in the future, not in the past but right fucking now. Either you do shit rn or shit never even xisted in the 1st place you stupid fucking fuck.

>>6783
kek. Stupid fucking cunt, wh@ did I tell ya back then you fucking retard? kys already & take that seething sex offender any% retard along with you will ya?
How much fucking time did you even waste on this shit holy fuck.
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 No.6968

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Well what the actual fuck. I wasn't expecting this.

This other classmate of us, who is really out of my league like I'm talking model 9/10 looks and personality all of a sudden is liking my stories and texted me. I'm legit dumbfounded I don't know if this is a prank or some shit it really is catching me off guard

I know they're close to each other so there's a chance she knows i fancy her friend so she got jealous or some shit. Or maybe she's just very social and likes to talk? but that doesn't make much sense I mean in person we have barely talked to each other outside of group settings you know, we are acquaintances if that.

She's kinda intimidating honestly. So far we've only talked about our music tastes and dumb shit like that but man the conversation doesn't seem to stop… really don't know how to feel rn

I mean she never caught my eye because in my mind i had literally 0.1% chance so why bother. But now I'm fucking confused because I'm still kinda into the other girl I confessed to, I mean she been on my mind for like 8 months it cant go away easily and now I'm scared of developing new feelings for this girl who idk if she's messing with me or probably will break my heart…

What the hell. This can turn out amazingly or terribly bad there's no in between

Final boss type shit
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 No.6969

All i know is that if i really hit the jackpot with this girl it's gonna wreck their friendship gonna send that other girl to therapy i swear

>>6830
Cope bitch
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 No.6970

Anyway chances are shes just an attentionwhore. But let a man dream goddammit
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 No.6971

>>6968
>9/10 looks and personality
What is 9/10 personality?
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 No.6972

>>6971
NTA but a 9/10 personality means he hasn't actually spent any time with her yet and she mainly exists in his head.
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 No.6978

>>6968
She probably wants something from you. That's the only time femoids talk to incels. It could be validation, it could be money, whatever it is just keep your guard up.
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 No.6979

>>6968
Why don't you ask her to hang out and go do something? Like rock climbing idk
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 No.6981

>>6968
I've seen this movie one too many times…
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 No.6982

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>>6978
>>6979
>>6981
Nah nevermind, conversation fizzled out my incel ass was fantasizing again. Guess shes just social media addicted and hits people up randomly.

I managed to hint to her that a like her friend and she told me something like she already knew, and that her friend doesn't want a relationship rn but that i should keep talking to her normally and shit… what did she mean bros… Either that's true and there's hope or she lying to not hurt my feelings…
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 No.6983

>>5540
>Make You Mine
>music video is about two woman being into each other
uygha shes gay
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 No.7565

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Aight small update. We have barely talked over the summer, all initiated by me ofc and it wasn't more than a few texts. That was the first few weeks, then i felt shit was off and said something like maybe I should stop talking to you and she went ok sure. I was tryna heal and didn't text for like a month, until I fell and replied to one of her IG stories, which surprisingly she texted back and seemed decently engaged in talking.

So i said whatever and sent her a meme over whatsapp, and she went like don't talk to me again. Like bitch we were talking normally like yesterday just in a different app what the hell. And that is not to say some hints that happened over Instagram, like in the notes where you can share a song I would post a song and like 5 mins later she shared one titled "how to love me" or some shit like that. I wouldn't say it happened all that often but she's done stuff like that more than once

I know this sounds so fucking autistic but it's what it is.

Now we are going back to class, and thankfully we are in different classes so only really see each other in the halls or in our way to/out of class. Haven't talked to her in person (yet) I don't wanna risk that, so a few days ago i texted her like "Can't I talk already?", i thought she was gonna ghost but surprisingly she brought the issue up herself. She said that she "doesn't want anything with me and it's worse if we talk" so "that's the reason i don't wanna talk to you", but also said like "you do whatever".

Now, to me that sounded like she was in a relationship and i hinted to it, she said she "doesn't want anything with no one", aight i said, i brought up those hints but she denied them like bish you know it's true. Like when we were in the talking stage she doesn't know how to lie its kinda cute when she tries

Now back to:
>said that she "doesn't want anything with me and it's worse if we talk" so "that's the reason i don't wanna talk to you"
It's a rough translation but its basically what she said. Knowing how autistic this bish is wouldn't surprise me she actually has some interest and is self-sabotaging, i've done that in the past its def not uncommon. And then:
>"you do whatever"
Now idk what to do should i talk to her or not. I mean I probably will in the next few days i can't hold myself this is driving me crazy imma just pass by her side and say bye, simple as that. It feels i'm starting back from zero again fucking hell

Finally i told her this, that i felt she was afraid of falling for someone. She left it on seen. No response is also a response, if she disagreed she would ave denied it like she denied the hints. Or maybe I'm looking too much into it

So at this point she's either a) retarded, b) lied and has a bf, c) is a closeted lesbian. Maybe all three. All i know is that when we lock eyes she looks like she either wants to kill me or fuck me no in between.
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 No.7566

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>>7565
Now for me to be this obsessed you may think this is some kind of stacy but nothing further from the truth. She's fugly, unfeminine, probably somewhat neurodivergent, i could aim for a higher league but you know what I love that, i fucking adore her she's funny and witty and has character and assertiveness, is honest (sometimes a little too much) and even nurturing in her own way, for me I found an unicorn i won't let this one slide. We'll get there bros.
Trust the process

TRUST THE PROCESS
<33333
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 No.7567

>>7565
Is it possible that she was nice to you on instagram and then told you to fuck off in DMs because instagram is public and she didn't want to seem like a bitch in front of all her friends?

>>7566
This whole post reminded me why men are the better sex. I really think you should move on anon but I admire your perseverance and dedication to this hoe.

Also post the meme you sent her.
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 No.7697

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LMFAO i managed to fuck this up even further. I can only laugh now.

Long story short, she unfollowed me on IG and i got pissed off and blocked her. I think she realized and proceeded to block me too. Now i'm still blocked after weeks and im going completely insane. I know it's unhealthy but man, had i held myself i could have just waited some time to send her a follow request again and act like nothing happened. Now i think shes angry

Is it over bros? be honest

We keep running into each other and stuff and I know I trigger her like crazy. The other day she was with a group of classmates and i joined them, the moment I appeared she started playing w her hair and acting like she was on the phone lmfao, I know it because she has done it in the past. I didn't say a word to her 1 on 1 though just interacted via the group.

Other times she looks from the distance and then averts her gaze. LIKE BITCH I KNOW YOURE A FUCKING SCHIZO I KNOW IM IN YOUR MIND. Not nearly as much a you're in mine, but im in it.

The real opposite of love is indifference, not avoidance, and for better or worse she cares about me. True rejection would be not giving a flying fuck weather i talk to her or not or weather i exist, but she's scared of something not even her knows

So far i've been giving her some handwritten notes with little drawings and shit telling her there's no need to cut communication, and that i promise not to talk about a relationship if it triggers her. She takes them every time no question asked, again if she truly didnt give a fuck abt me she wouldnt take them period

She never told me she didnt like me she mostly said she didn't want a relationship. BUT I NEED COMMUNICATION to know if it's worth waiting for her or if there's even a chance to begin with before i keep falling down this spiral of delusion. Every day i feel this shit is consuming me which i don't really mind because the tiniest reciprocation would outweigh the bad and make me the happiest mf on earth.

At this rate I'm posting the next update from jail
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 No.7699

>>7697
It sounds like you're being clingy.
And she's avoidant and BPD.
I think both of you need therapy.
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 No.7701

>>7699
Fuggin' this. Probably both raised by single moms. Western women are completely held unaccountable for the emotional damage they inflict.
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 No.7702

>>7697
>leftoids being this dependent on a cunt
It's over.
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 No.7703

>>7701
>muh single moms

if paternal abscence is the doagnosis for all personal problems, it shows that fatgers are highly inefficient.
Alot of moral/empathetic deficients had dads growing up.

Paternal influence (or lack thereof) is not a good factor of virtue.

I think its the lack life skills training done in schools and homes.

Society has been taught that aging alone brings skills.
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 No.7704

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>>7699
We can be each other's therapy
>>7701
I have a dad he's kind of a pussy though so maybe your right. Dunno much about her family dynamics but i see her dad every now and then and seems like a strongman type dude
>>7702
The most beautiful cunt i've seen in my entire god forsaken life that is
>>7567
>I really think you should move on anon but I admire your perseverance and dedication to this hoe.
Thanks anon tho it might be an ego thing at this point. Right now i could settle for making her laugh again that shit gave me a reason to live
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 No.7707

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>>7704
>We can be each other's therapy

Read "Killing Stalking".
(Pics related)

>I have a dad he's kind of a pussy though so maybe your right. Dunno much about her family dynamics but i see her dad every now and then and seems like a strongman type dude

Female narcissism is due to fathers spoiling their daughters.
Alot of macho guys often are the biggest simps for their daughters.
"Fatherlessness" is a meme for female misbehavior.

>Thanks anon tho it might be an ego thing at this point. Right now i could settle for making her laugh again that shit gave me a reason to live

Again refer to pics related

>The most beautiful cunt i've seen in my entire god forsaken life that is

For the last time, refer to pics related
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 No.7708

>>7567
>This whole post reminded me why men are the better sex. I really think you should move on anon but I admire your perseverance and dedication to this hoe.

It's unfortunate that men are actively discouraged from cosmetic self-care.
Beauty is wrongfully assigned only to women.

Men are expected to be warrior-butlers and figure shit out with little to no guidance nor abilities.

Hence, men are always dumb enough to throw away all self-value towards women.

This is why women act up the way they do in relationships.

Chivalry is toxic and cringe.
And those are words I don't like to use normally because of how overused they are.
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 No.7709

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>>7703
>t. coping neglected child.
This deflection is the very reason why failed patenting is cited so much. Boomers, Gen Xers and society in general still refuse to take responsibility for their role in the failings of their children.
All the While every major psychological study will say that yes, a person's life is deeply effected by their upbringing to the point that it basically determines their fate, you still see people denying this openly as if it's some sort of truism.
Obviously not every outcome can be connected to parenting, but since no credence is given to this despite overwhelming evidence it continues to persist as a fixture in discourse.
>TL;DR yes it is your parent's fault that you're fucked up, and no it's not simply a product of poverty or trauma.
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 No.7710

>>7709
Again, fatherlessness is misunderstood and overused for every single incident of faux pas.

Also, ironic coming from you calling me a neglected child when you're on an imageboard.

Again, the real problem isnt fatherlessness,
It's rather the over-promoting that age numbers are virtue points.
Parenting should require mandatory training and licensing.
Schools need to bring back practical skills such as cooking, finances, home repair, childrearing, etc.
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 No.7711

>>7710
It's not, see this 80 year study showing that single mothers cause crime to go up in an area, not poverty.
https://leftychan.net/R9K/res/5139.html
You've clearly never seriously traveled or lived outside the US. You'll meet many families and children far poor than those in the states that are far more well adjusted.
This white knighting simping of women is why the left is in the woods with men.
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 No.7712

>>7711
Why not blame both the single mother AND the man that decided to leave?
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 No.7713

>>7711
Maybe beacuse for most of human history, society was always patriarchal, so single moms had no power?

Again, the real problem is the reckless overpromotion of marriage and parenthood as automatic luxuries of adulthood.
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 No.7714

>>7709
>This deflection is the very reason why failed patenting is cited so much. Boomers, Gen Xers and society in general still refuse to take responsibility for their role in the failings of their children.


Theres a thread on rchan where millennials are dunking on zoomers for having the same flaws as them.

Apparetly Millennials have gotten the same lack of self-awareness as their boomer elders now.

https://boards.4chan.org/gif/thread/28073389#p28078724
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 No.7715

>>7711
>sources are fix family courts dot com and single mother resources dot com

>FFC is owned by some conservashit texas company

Not surprising. Anyway the post you linked is bullshit and you're a retard for believing it.
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 No.7717

>>7715

>sources are fix family courts dot com and single mother resources dot com

That's just the name of the website man hating femcel. Here are the sources cited
Sources:
House Ways and Means Committee, Nonmarital Births to Adults and Teenagers and Federal Strategies to Reduce Nonmarital Pregnancies, appendix “M”, 2003
The Longevity Project, by Howard S. Friedman and Leslie R. Martin (Hudson Street Press) 0020
PubMed
The Annie E. Casey Foundation
U.S. Census Bureau
Single Mother Guide, "Single Mother Statistics," accessed July 15, 2023, https://singlemotherguide.com/single-mother-statistics/.
C.C. Harper and S.S. McLanahan, “Father Absence and Youth Incarceration,” Paper presented at the Annual Meeting of the American Sociological Assoc., San Francisco, CA, 1998.
Progressive Policy Institute, 1990, quoted by David Blankenhorn, “Fatherless America: Confronting Our Most Urgent Social Problem,” New York, Harper Perennial, 1996, p.31.
D.A. Smith and G.R. Jarjoura, “Social Structure and Criminal Victimization,” Journal of Research in Crime and Delinquency 25. 1988.
Wade Horn, “Why There Is No Substitute For Parents,” IMPRIMIS 26, NO.6, June 1997
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 No.7722

>>7717
people like to shit on single moms but most single moms are result of dads being bored/overwhelmed by the prospect of parenting.

Most dads if theyre engaged with the kids will often turn violent amd angry at the slightest trouble.

People whom are raised by si gle dads often have to raise themselves or deal with pissy mancunts.

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